"Let us love one another..." 1John 4 : 7
You know how much anger can cause you? It can deceived your perception towards others as our action and decision by planting seed of hatred into our brain, heart and soul may distort the love from growing.
Along the way, there will/ might be people who may hurt or disappoint us or even talk bad about us. Please be reminded that we do not easily or quickly judged them. There must be a reason for everything they have done. Out of 100%, we might contribute 10% to the problem that have occurred. Before pointing our finger at others and blaming or naming them or labeling them with certain name for problem that became a hurdle for us to move on or achieve something, please do remember that another four fingers is pointing at us.
Some people said that maturity is counted based on experienced or at least age. In my point of view, it is true, but those two combination alone does not contribute to success of our mission. A Prime Minister still needs his cabinet to execute his mission and vision. Somewhere around in achieving those mission or vision, we stumble upon decision. Please remember that we are human, we tend to make mistake and other people to. But take two steps backward and learn to see thing with positive perspective. We need other people to grow as well, as they know thing that we don't see in us. Like me myself, my friend always told me that I am too emotional over certain circumstances and that will always led to negative circumstances. I learned to swallow my own pride for my own sake, for my spiritual growth and I quickly deal with it, face the music. Remember, God place these people around us with reason, as we are His masterpiece.
Maturity is reasoning when we willing to deal with our attitude or others with grace. Maturity is impeccable to move others, when they saw we took HIS decision or way to settle any differences. Maturity is flawless whenever people throw 'rubbish' at us and we manage to stay calm.
"Like a city whose walls are broken down is a man who lacks self-control" Proverbs 25 : 28.
"Likewise the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark." James 3 : 5
There is great future ahead of us.
Along the way, there will/ might be people who may hurt or disappoint us or even talk bad about us. Please be reminded that we do not easily or quickly judged them. There must be a reason for everything they have done. Out of 100%, we might contribute 10% to the problem that have occurred. Before pointing our finger at others and blaming or naming them or labeling them with certain name for problem that became a hurdle for us to move on or achieve something, please do remember that another four fingers is pointing at us.
Some people said that maturity is counted based on experienced or at least age. In my point of view, it is true, but those two combination alone does not contribute to success of our mission. A Prime Minister still needs his cabinet to execute his mission and vision. Somewhere around in achieving those mission or vision, we stumble upon decision. Please remember that we are human, we tend to make mistake and other people to. But take two steps backward and learn to see thing with positive perspective. We need other people to grow as well, as they know thing that we don't see in us. Like me myself, my friend always told me that I am too emotional over certain circumstances and that will always led to negative circumstances. I learned to swallow my own pride for my own sake, for my spiritual growth and I quickly deal with it, face the music. Remember, God place these people around us with reason, as we are His masterpiece.
Maturity is reasoning when we willing to deal with our attitude or others with grace. Maturity is impeccable to move others, when they saw we took HIS decision or way to settle any differences. Maturity is flawless whenever people throw 'rubbish' at us and we manage to stay calm.
"Like a city whose walls are broken down is a man who lacks self-control" Proverbs 25 : 28.
"Likewise the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark." James 3 : 5
There is great future ahead of us.
As this little children, they love one another without anguish
